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Saint’s Story

A teacher in a Head Start classroom reads to Saint and another boy.

From left to right: Teacher’s Aide Yaneth Orduna; Saint; and Saint’s classmate Liam.

Darlene’s Perspective
Saint’s Mom

When I first enrolled my son Saint at Escalera Head Start, I was concerned about his behavior. He would have tantrums and not really know how to communicate his feelings, so he would scream and cry. I wasn’t sure how he would do in a school environment. I worried that the teachers would judge me, and that they wouldn’t know how to handle his outbursts—as I had trouble doing myself. I also was concerned that his behavior might make it hard for him to make friends.

So it was with a lot of anxiety on my part that Saint started Escalera—but it was replaced by relief and hope almost right away. Saint’s teachers were extremely patient and learned how to communicate with him when he was inconsolable. I love the way the staff is in constant communication with us and learns our family dynamic at home in order to transition the children to a more familiar environment. He is so much more mature. He has learned how to be a great friend and is super respectful to everyone around him. I am so happy with his progress, which I know will make it easier for him to transition to kindergarten next fall.

Although it’s hard to confide in and talk about your family to people like teachers at first, my advice to any parent whose child is starting Escalera for the first time is to be super honest about their child and communicate with their teacher, whatever their concerns are. I promise you, the teacher will become like family!

Ms. Tracey’s Perspective
Tracey Elting, Escalera Program Director

At the beginning of the school year, managing emotions was a challenge for Saint. He would scream when another child bothered him and was unable to follow the classroom expectations, thus requiring a lot of redirection. Like a lot of children embarking on their first school experience, he was not very independent and waited for his family members and teachers to do things for him, like putting his coat in his cubby and cleaning up the toys.

He struggled to form letters when writing his name and was easily distracted during whole group/circle time activities and read-alouds. He showed little interest in learning.

But Saint had a lot of potential. He was curious and social and clearly wanted to be a part of things. He also had a wonderful advocate in his mom, who was a great partner in ensuring consistency between home and school. Saint always had good attendance, and during his moving up ceremony at the end of the year, he received a certificate for 97% attendance.

With partnership, consistency, and our compassionate and skilled team—including Ms. Yaneth, pictured above, and Assistant Teacher Rosangles Vargas—Saint blossomed into the friendly, happy, and eager-to-learn child we knew he could be. By the end of the school year, Saint learned to manage his feelings by using various strategies, such as telling a teacher or playing with another child or toy. He now follows classroom expectations on his own without reminders. He is much more independent and completes most tasks by himself. He can write and spell his name. In fact, he is now meeting or exceeding widely held developmental expectations for his age in all domains, from social-emotional development to traditional academic areas, like literacy and math.

Saint’s progress is evident as soon as you walk into the classroom. You can find him actively participating in whole group/circle time activities and read-alouds, answering questions that show understanding of the concept being taught. You can find him exploring in all learning centers with a variety of materials, and you can feel his enjoyment when he participates in small group learning activities. He now associates “school” with positive feelings, which is the most important thing. He will start kindergarten ready and excited to learn and thrive.

Saint’s Perspective

I like to play with cars and blocks and in the kitchen area. I like center time. Center time is my favorite time at school!

Supporting Our Community During the Government Shutdown

As of today, October 31, 2025, the federal government shutdown remains in effect. This means that funding for SNAP benefits will cease beginning tomorrow, November 1.  

It is important to note that SNAP benefits already on an EBT card CAN be spent in November.

For help understanding what all these changes mean for your family and what resources are available, the Legal Aid Society has produced this Q&A. Additionally, The Child Center Benefits Access program can connect you with local food pantries and emergency food resources. We know this may be an incredibly challenging and stressful time for your family and hope these resources will be helpful to you.  

If you are interested in mental health services, you can visit our mental health information page, or you can visit our programs and services page for more information on other services available to our communities.  

UPDATE, 11/13/2025: The United States has officially brought the longest government shutdown in our history to an end. In practical terms, this means that most—if not all—SNAP benefits should resume in the coming days. We know how challenging this period has been for so many of us. Please remember that The Child Center’s support services remain fully available, and we are here for you.

Previous updates are below for reference only, as they no longer apply.

UPDATE, 2:30 p.m.: A federal court ordered the Trump administration to pay for food stamps during the government shutdown. Please stay tuned for more updates, as this is an active situation that may continue to change.

EVENING UPDATE, 10/31/2025: Federal courts have directed the Trump Administration to continue funding the nation’s food stamp program and provide a clear plan through the Department of Agriculture. President Trump says funding could resume in November once the courts clarify how the government can legally move forward during the shutdown. For now, SNAP benefits are still set to expire on November 1 unless new funding mechanisms are finalized, but you still can spend SNAP benefits already on an EBT card. Visit the New York State Office of Temporary and Disability Assistance (OTDA) page for the latest updates: https://otda.ny.gov/shutdown.

Morning Update, 11/3/2025: The Trump administration faces a deadline today to inform two federal courts when it will restore funding for food stamps, after judges ruled the government’s suspension of SNAP benefits during the shutdown unlawful. While the White House has signaled it will comply, no clear timeline for reinstating payments has been provided. Further updates are expected later today.

Morning Update, 11/3/2025: The Trump administration told two federal courts that it will send only partial food-stamp payments this month, covering roughly half of what eligible households typically receive. The move, funded through an emergency reserve, offers a temporary reprieve to those affected.

What this means: Millions of people who rely on SNAP will only receive about half of their usual benefits this month. The government is using emergency funds to make these partial payments. If new funding isn’t approved, many families may see their SNAP benefits reduced even further, or temporarily stopped, in the coming weeks. This is a fluid situation and can evolve at any moment. Please keep checking https://otda.ny.gov/shutdown for updates.

11/6/25 Update: A federal judge ordered the U.S. government to fully fund food stamp payments for the roughly 42 million Americans who rely on SNAP. The ruling ensures that benefits will continue without interruption, following recent delays and uncertainty at the federal level. This decision is a critical relief for families across New York City who depend on SNAP to put food on the table. Full SNAP benefits are being restored and should be processed as usual.

11/10 Editor’s Note: Because this case is still winding its way through the courts, the situation is constantly changing. We encourage you to check the OTDA website regularly for the most up-to-date information. We will share updates here once the appeals court has made its decision. In the meantime, for information on available food resources where you can access supplies, produce, and meals, including food banks, food pantries, and more, visit:

Here are additional food resources that can be accessed by phone:

  • Call the USDA National Hunger Hotline at 1-866-3-HUNGRY or 1-877-8-HAMBRE (Spanish)
  • Call 211 for New York State Residents
  • Call 311 if you live in New York City
  • Text 914-342-7744 and type in the word “food.”

Photo of the Month: What P.S. 45 Participants Love About Afterschool

a collage of photos featuring students of P.S. 45 constructing a large paper lightbulb in honor of Lights On Afterschool.

See Our Lights on Afterschool Celebration!

A collage of COMPASS PS 45 students celebrating Lights on Afterschool by contructing a large paper light bulb.

Lights On Afterschool (LOA) is a nationwide event celebrating afterschool programs and their important role in the lives of children, families and communities. The Child Center’s COMPASS afterschool program at P.S. 45 in South Ozone Park, Queens, marked the occasion with artwork, reflections, and fun!

Participants constructed one large paper light bulb—the symbol of LOA—and added circles to represent the lights. Inside the circles, students wrote about a favorite afterschool memory or five things they love about afterschool. The day ended with a bounce house and pizza.

A collage featuring PS 45 students celebrating Lights on Afterschool with a bounce house and pizza.The Child Center of NY offers afterschool programs at 30 schools and community centers. Each one offers services that go beyond supervision. We provide a meaningful connection to the school day, ensuring that children continue to learn after the school bell rings. They also explore an array of enrichment activities, from dance to coding. This provides them with unique and supportive opportunities to discover their strengths and passions, and all the wonderful things they are capable of.

Our COMPASS program at P.S. 45 is one of our newest afterschool programs—just a few weeks old! If the students’ reflections on the poster are any indication, it’s been a great success so far. Children answered the prompt about their favorite part of afterschool with various responses, from basketball and soccer to “making inventions” and making friends, and the staff. “As one child wrote, “Me gusta cuando entro afterschool, y quisiera venir todos los días.” (“I like when I go to afterschool, and I would like to go every day.”)

 

Kendra’s Story

Kendra during a field trip to the Bronx Zoo last summer

When Kendra enrolled in The Child Center’s Oceanside Cornerstone Community Center afterschool program as a second grader, she was struggling with behavioral challenges. She was also curious, bright, outgoing, good at math, and bursting with potential. That’s what the afterschool program team saw in Kendra, and they were determined to work with Kendra’s mom to ensure Kendra had the tools, support, and confidence to reach and believe in her own potential.

Like a lot of second graders, Kendra could sometimes get overwhelmed by the changes in her life. The uncertainty about new routines, expectations, and her environment sometimes became emotionally challenging. The transitions in her life could sometimes feel like too much, and she found it all difficult to manage. The afterschool team offered to partner with Kendra’s mom to help Kendra learn to process her emotions and develop coping skills that could help her now and in the future.

The first step was establishing an environment of trust between the center and Kendra’s mother. This environment included communication between the center and home on Kendra’s progress, patience in helping Kendra navigate her challenges, consistency regarding the consequences when trust was broken, and a feasible plan for repair and moving forward. Program Coordinator Danielle Douglas, who played a crucial role on the team, says that the most important part of keeping this union strong was the buy-in from Kendra’s mother.

Together, with consistency, they began to see Kendra’s behavior improve. Being able to manage and understand her emotions helped Kendra make friends, focus on her schoolwork, and experience more joy in her daily life. As Program Director Nelson Sarweh says, “This is a prime example of ‘It takes a village to raise a child.’”

Danielle is so grateful to have had an opportunity to watch Kendra soar. “The experience reminded me of why I chose youth development as a profession, and why I returned to the field after a couple of years away,” Danielle says. “The opportunity to make a difference in a young person’s life is very fulfilling.”

Kendra and another participant crouched down inside a small greenhouse-like structure, harvesting kale.

Here is Kendra harvesting kale in Oceanside’s garden.

That’s our perspective. Here is Kendra’s perspective, in her own words:

My name is Kendra. I am in sixth grade, and I have been a participant in the Oceanside Cornerstone afterschool program since second grade. With the help of my mother and the center, a safe space was created which allows me to express myself when I’m upset. That has helped me a lot.

I like attending afterschool at Oceanside. I like the different activities we have and how the group leaders treat us. They allow us to express ourselves without judgment and provide help when needed.

I also like having the opportunity to try new things. At the end of fifth grade, I auditioned for the storyteller role in the center’s Juneteenth skit—and I got it. I was nervous at first but proud of myself and the other students who performed.

There are other things I want to do and try. I have a goal to play volleyball at a competitive level, and I’m working hard to do better in some school subjects. My best subject is math. I think I’m doing good so far, and the Cornerstone group leaders are always there to help.

Now that I’ve had this experience, I know that I can work through whatever problems I’m going through. The advice I would give to young people who may be going through similar challenges is to talk their problems out, take a deep breath, or sometimes you just have to walk away from the situation that is upsetting you. There is always something positive to focus on.

Cathy Wu, LCSW-R, RPT-S, CASAC, Celebrates 13 Years at The Child Center

head shot of Cathy Wu

Head shot of Cathy WuThis month, we celebrate Cathy Wu’s 13 incredible years at The Child Center of NY. As a longtime leader at the Macari Family Wellness Center CCBHC and now a dedicated behavioral health operations leader, Cathy has made a lasting impact on the communities we serve. We sat down with her to reflect on her journey, her passion for mental health, and what continues to inspire her work each day.

The Child Center of NY: Can you share a bit about how you started your career here and what made you want to work at The Child Center?

Cathy Wu, LCSW-R, RPT-S, CASAC: When I first joined The Child Center of NY, I was looking for more than just a job — I wanted to be part of something meaningful. What drew me in was the mission: the idea that every child and every family deserves a chance to thrive. I was also attracted to the agency’s mission to support the under-served and immigrant populations. Being bilingual and bicultural has given me a unique opportunity to support and give back to the community that shaped me. All of this still resonates with me today.

Tell us about your role and what your day-to-day looks like.

I started my career here with a deep respect for structure, process, and care behind the scenes. Over the years, my role has evolved, but at its core, it’s always been about supporting the systems that support our communities. My day-to-day involves making sure the operational side flows smoothly — whether that’s coordinating projects, troubleshooting issues, or simply being a steady presence when things get busy or uncertain. There’s a quiet satisfaction in helping things run well so others can do their work with ease.

What are some of the most memorable moments, valuable lessons, or milestones from your time with us?

Looking back, some of the most memorable moments weren’t necessarily the big ones — but the small, human ones. A thank you from a team member. A grateful, warm smile from a client or a family member. A tough day that ended with a shared laugh. Navigating challenges that seemed impossible at first, only to see them become wins through teamwork and persistence. I’ve learned how much can happen behind the scenes that no one ever sees — and how valuable that work truly is.

How has the organization changed over the years, and what are the most significant transformations you’ve witnessed? What do you think is in the future for The Child Center?

The organization has grown in so many positive ways to better serve our community. There’s been more movement toward innovation, technology, and cross-team collaboration. It’s been inspiring to see us evolve, and I think the future holds even more alignment between mission and action, between heart and infrastructure. We’re building something that lasts, and I’m proud to be part of that foundation.

What has been the most rewarding aspect of working here for so long?

For me, the most rewarding aspect of working here has been the sense of quiet impact. I may not be front and center, but I know the work I do supports the bigger mission. It’s been so fulfilling to be a part of all the growth. Not only the growth of the organization, but also witnessing the growth of clients’ therapeutic healing and staff’s professional development in their career path. It’s meaningful to be part of something that changes lives — even if my role is one of the steady, behind-the-scenes ones. That kind of purpose doesn’t fade.

Thirteen years later, I’m still here. Still learning. Still showing up. Still proud.

 

Photo of the Month: The 2025 Backpack Drive

A girl and a boy carry their new backpacks in front of them, courtesy of the Child Center backpack drive.

A girl and a boy stand next to each other with the backpacks they received through The Child Center's 2025 backpack drive.Look who’s ready and excited to start a new school year!

Pictured here are fourth-grader Alessandro (right), who is a client at The Child Center of NY’s Cohen Family Wellness Center, and his sister, Camilia (left), who just started second grade.

Alessandro and Camilia are holding new backpacks provided through The Child Center’s 2025 backpack drive. Every year, The Child Center organizes a campaign to provide fully stocked backpacks to any child in our programs who needs one. Alessandro’s backpack included a binder, notebook, pens, pencils, markers, colored pencils, and more.

This year, rising prices have made it even harder for families to provide school supplies. According to the National Retail Federation, families with children in elementary through high school plan to spend an average of $890 on school items—approximately $25 more than last year. That’s a lot for most families, and many who were able to afford supplies in the past may no longer be able to do so. We are so grateful for all the donors who stepped in to fill the gap so that children like Alessandro and Camilia walked into their classrooms on the first day with pride, confidence, and joy.

With the basics taken care of, Alessandro is looking forward to focusing on his goals. When asked what he wanted to achieve this year, Alessandro said, “I want to make new friends, have new memories, and try to gain a new school award.”

We’re rooting for you, Alessandro! With your positive spirit and determination, you are well on your way. We can’t wait to hear all about it!

Editor’s Note: It’s not too late to support the backpack drive, which ensures our youth are prepared for school year round. Learn more: https://give.childcenterny.org/campaign/687337/donate.

Penny’s Story

Penny and her family and a councilwoman stand in the rain holding a street sign.

From left to right: Andre’s daughter, Anaya; his wife, Timia; Council Member Nantasha Williams; and Penny

Penny is a participant in The Child Center of NY’s Cash+Community Works (C+C), a peer-based initiative that invests in under-resourced families, trusts them with power, and connects them with peers to uplift whole communities. Through C+C, Penny established a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organizationFor the Love of Dre—to bring attention to gun violence and advocate for safe neighborhoods. One especially meaningful goal of Penny’s was to name a street after her late son. She reflects on the culmination of this goal in the story below.   

My name is Patricia, a.k.a. Ms. Penny. On June 7, 2025, I had the honor of having a street in Jamaica, Queens, co-named after my son. At the corner of 109th Road and 169th Place, there is now a street sign proclaiming it Andre (Dre Most) Saunders Road.

My son Andre was an MTA bus driver and self-proclaimed violence interrupter—meaning, Andre would singularly stop lots of potential street violence before it would erupt into people getting hurt or killed.

Unfortunately, Andre was an innocent bystander who was murdered on January 11, 2009. He was and still is a legend in the community and surrounding communities. Our family history goes back as far as I can remember on this block. All the way back to my great-great-grandmother, who passed away at 102 years old. My brother and his family still reside on the block.

One night or day, I had an epiphany that Andre said he wanted his name on the block. I told him I would fight tooth and nail, even if I had to put it up on cardboard. By the grace of God, Councilwoman Nantasha Williams, and the community, it was manifested.

I thank Cash+Community Works for all the support they have extended to me, by supplying treats, waters, and other support at the gathering after the street-naming event, and especially for the grant I was awarded. With funds from the grant, I was able to officially register For the Love of Dre as a nonprofit. We’ve hosted several giveaway events to bring the community together, and to honor and promote Andre’s legacy of nonviolence, community, and making the most of life. Andre lived every day with gratitude, joy, and purpose. He built people up and brought them together instead of tearing them down and apart. This is what For the Love of Dre is all about. I can’t think of a better way to honor my son’s memory than by instilling these values in the next generation, in the community he cared so much about.

Ma’Chi’s Story

Ma'Chi, a teen at the Child Center Residential Treatment Facility (RTF) stands dressed in a suit for The Child Center's gala.

Ma’Chi at The Child Center’s Evening Celebrating Resilience

Like everyone, I’ve been through a lot of challenges. Before I was placed into the RTF [Child Center Residential Treatment Facility], I made mistakes I shouldn’t have.

I was 11 years old when my mom passed away. A few years later, my stepfather passed. After multiple foster care placements, I was adopted by my uncle and his wife. Living there was hard as well, especially because I wasn’t with my sister. I was so used to taking care of her—I used to cook for her, traveled two or three miles to get her from school, and made sure to be there for her in whatever ways I needed to be—I didn’t know how to take care of myself.

I started missing school and, unfortunately, resorted to violence. I was not able to express my feelings well, and there was an incident of violence at school that really changed me. Someone talked about my mom and a family member in a way that ticked me off, and I reacted in a way that wasn’t fit. Now I’m here.

a handwritten poem by Ma'Chi, a teen at The Child Center Residential Treatment Facility (RTF).You might think I’m unhappy about that. But it’s better than being in jail. It’s better than being six feet under. I’m thankful I’m here instead of anywhere else. That’s because I’ve come to understand this placement as a stepping stone to get better in life.

My first experience with therapy was here. It was challenging. I wasn’t used to talking about my feelings or things of that nature. You start talking to somebody, and you’re like, who is this person? I don’t really know them. But as time goes on, you get used to talking about your feelings and realize how helpful it is. I’m so thankful for that. I found new ways of looking at things and coping with challenges.

I found arts and crafts helped me express myself. I wasn’t a very good drawer before I came here. Ms. Nina [Grae, Arts Expansion Coordinator] and Ms. Victoria [Ortiz, RTF Activity and Events Coordinator] helped me be able to draw and write songs and poetry. I wrote a poem, “A Letter from Heaven,” and drew a picture of my mom and stepfather.

A pencil drawing of Ma'Chi's mom and stepfather.I’m also an athlete. I’ve been playing ball forever, and I’ve gotten better at ball since I was here. Whenever I’m on the court, everything just goes away: I’m focused on that, and that only, and that’s a good coping skill for me.

One of the most important things I’ve accomplished here is keeping an empathetic mindset in my heart. I try my best every day. I don’t let other people’s challenges faze me. I just let them fly by, because everyone has a reason. Everyone has their problems, and who am I to judge somebody, knowing that I was worse than them? I’m in no state to judge anybody around me, because I don’t know what they’re going through, just as they don’t know what I’m going through. Everything everyone does is deeper than the surface level. I started to realize that sometimes people will treat me how they treat me because of something they’re going through, and that’s helped me manage my feelings better.

And no matter how hard things got, I always kept my mom’s message in my heart. She believed in me, and I always strive to do better, in school and in my relationships with other people, and live up to that.

When a lot of kids first arrive at the RTF, they don’t understand what it is to be here. I can tell you from experience that it’s a better place. The therapists do nothing but help. And they are really genuine. They do family sessions as well for me and my uncle and my sister. That’s been an important thing for me because my sister just graduated eighth grade. I got to see her before she graduated, and that made me happy. Being here doesn’t mean that you don’t get to see your family. You get to work on your relationships with them, which has meant so much to me.

I’ll be starting 11th grade in September, and I’m feeling excited about the future. I don’t know what I want to do yet. First, I want to be a motivational speaker. I’m interested in being an astrophysicist as well; I love space and science. But I always have a plan B, and I want to play basketball overseas because I like traveling and exploring new things. Whatever I do, I know the path I want to take is helping people. I speak from the heart and have thought about being a psychologist who goes into foster homes to lend a helping hand to kids like me. I definitely want to go to college, and my top choices are Rutgers and NYU.

The RTF provides a Summer Youth Employment Program, which allows us to learn about jobs and internships so that when we leave here, we can get a job. I feel like that’s very helpful. Kids like me, we don’t know where to start when it comes to jobs. Sometimes the situations aren’t ideal, where you have a guardian to just easily sign your working papers, and then, boom, you have a job. It’s not that easy all the time. So now you can have a therapist or your transitional coordinator sign the papers because they have the right to, and you can get a job.

My job here is administrative assistant to Ms. Nina. I like to be an open worker and help wherever I’m needed. We had a cookout for Juneteenth where all the families came. I did everything from event setup to making books for the families to read. I’m gaining a lot of skills, and I’m happy to do my part and give back. I try to be generous with my time and energy, because no one can do it alone.

Photo of the Month: Summer Rising at Parsons Community School

A smiling eighth grade boy wears a medal on a gold chain; the medal says, "Parsons Summer Rising Winner."

A smiling eighth grade boy wears a medal on a gold chain; the medal says, "Parsons Summer Rising Winner."If “awesome summer” were a photo, this would be it!

Meet soon-to-be eighth grader Sasha, who has been a participant of The Child Center of NY’s afterschool program at Parsons Community School in Flushing, Queens, since sixth grade. This summer, he participated in Parsons’ Summer Rising program, offered through a partnership between the NYC Department of Youth and Community Development (DYCD) and the NYC Department of Education. A free, full-day program for NYC students in kindergarten through eighth grade, Summer Rising provides a combination of academic support, social-emotional learning, and enrichment activities.

Those are the parameters for all Summer Rising programs—but how each program accomplishes this is up to their own creativity and imagination!

The Parsons team chose to center the summer’s activities around the theme “Parsons Goes Hollywood.” Participants engaged in weekly theme challenges such as recreating iconic movie scenes, posters, and props. The movie genre was action the week Sasha’s group earned the winner’s chain!

“Participants and their counselors took the theme and made it like a Hollywood set every week,” recalls Program Director Rafael Florero, noting that they attended to all the details, from costumes and makeup to elaborate set pieces and performances.

In addition to going all in on the Parsons Goes Hollywood theme, participants went on fun and exciting trips, such as United Skates, Dorney Park, and Ferox Ninja Park, and they explored electives such as basketball, soccer, fitness, 3-D printing, music studio, and dance—to name a few!

“This summer has been a standout,” Rafael says. “A huge shoutout to the team at Parsons who made this a great summer and helped bring their participants’ ideas to life.”


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